This is like the seat-independent nonfatal(), but specifies a Seat,
which allows the GUI dialog box to have the right terminal window as
its parent (if there are multiple ones).
Changed over all the nonfatal() calls in the code base that could be
localised to a Seat, which means all the ones that come up if
something goes horribly wrong in host key storage. To make that
possible, I've added a 'seat' parameter to store_host_key(); it turns
out that all its call sites had one available already.
I made a specific subdirectory 'stubs' to keep all the link-time stub
modules in, like notiming.c. And I put _one_ run-time stub in it,
namely nullplug.c. But the rest of the runtime stubs went into utils.
I think it's better to keep all the stubs together, so I've moved all
the null*.c in utils into stubs (with the exception of nullstrcmp.c,
which means the 'null' in a different sense). Also, fiddled with the
naming to be a bit more consistent, and stated in the new CMakeLists
the naming policy that distinguishes no-*.c from null-*.c.
