The Telnet proxy system is not a proper network protocol - we have no
reliable way to receive communication from the proxy telling us
whether a password is even required. However, we _do_ know (a) whether
the keywords '%user' or '%pass' appeared in the format string stored
in the Conf, and (b) whether we actually had a username or a password
to substitute into them. So that's how we know whether to ask for a
username or a password: if the format string asks for them and the
Conf doesn't provide them, we prompt for them at startup.
This involved turning TelnetProxyNegotiator into a coroutine (matching
all the other proxy types, but previously, it was the only one simple
enough not to need to be one), so that it can wait until a response
arrives to that prompt. (And also, as it turned out, so that it can
wait until setup is finished before even presenting the prompt!)
It also involves having format_telnet_command grow an extra output
parameter, in the form of 'unsigned *flags', with which it can
communicate back to the caller that a username or password was wanted
but not found. The other clients of that function (the local proxy
implementations) don't use those flags, but if necessary, they could.